This relationship is just fantastic, not ideal at all. ENFJs and ISFPs form one of the best relationship matches you can find, but 'best' shouldn't be confused with 'ideal.' Their relationship excels precisely because it challenges both partners to grow through their differences, rather than providing an effortlessly perfect match. It's their ability to navigate and learn from these differences that makes them one of the strongest pairs, even if they never reach some theoretical ideal of perfection.
The reasons for their fantastic relationship are as follows:
First, their relationship is complementary and beneficial.
Second, their relationship boasts remarkable compatibility. Their relationship is very compatible and pleasant.
Semi-duality Relationship Description
ISFP (ISFj Socionics type, ESI, Fi-Se) + ENFJ (ENFj Socionics type, EIE, Fe-Ni)
These are relations of deficient Duality. Semi-Duality partners usually have no problems in understanding each other or each other’s objectives, at least when these objectives are only on paper. When it comes to fulfilling joint plans, partners often fail to co-operate. The extrovert partner hardly listens to the introvert, concentrating more on the sound of their own voice. However, the introvert partner does not get upset about this and they often seem to find a way to adapt to it. Semi-Duals susually have many topics for conversation and these conversations do not seem to be boring.
Semi-Duals, especially if they are different in gender, can show interest in each other, which is multiplied if in addition they find each other attractive. However, when they feel like they are half way to complete understanding, one of them usually does something, not deliberately of course, that ruins all established harmony putting the partners right back to where they started. This is how incomplete Duality manifests itself.
Semi-Duality partners cannot stay upset with each other for a long time. After partners have calmed down, they attempt to get closer to each other again which unfortunately leads to another stumble. For the observer, these relations may seem really passionate and loving. Relations of Semi-Duality can be compared with the moth and the flame.
If not taken seriously, these relations can produce a little periodical shaking, keeping the partners “awake”. Relations of Semi-Duality are also full of contrasts: from being happy to see partner again to sudden disappointment and bewilderment.
This relationship lists some features that are really good and beneficial but potentially do not fit together at all.
The source is https://mbti-notes.tumblr.com/post/126995179282/relationships-between-an-isfp-and-enfj
Charts with this relationship marked “ideal” are very problematic. so this Incorrect.
I took the chart and asked everyone. “How’s this chart?”
Most of them answered they had a lot of problems and said the chart had to be eliminated because it was unreliable.
The chart also indicated that, among other relationships, the extinction relationship of Socionics was “ideal.” Even though the relationship is very controversial and ungrowing. The chart is problematic in many ways.
ISFP and ENFJ personalities both possess the Feeling trait, meaning they are conscientious and enjoy communicating emotionally. However, ISFPs are also more reserved, present-focused, and adaptable, while ENFJs tend to be outgoing, creative, and organized. ISFPs should listen to and connect emotionally with ENFJs, while ENFJs should communicate smaller concerns via email or text to offer ISFPs personal space.
Since ISFPs and ENFJs are both Feeling personalities, they should address conflict by sharing how a situation affects them emotionally. Though neither type enjoys addressing conflict, it’s helpful to keep in mind the benefits of settling a tense situation. To avoid some of the stress, ISFPs should openly communicate their perspective, while ENFJs should be conscious of ISFPs’ need for personal space, allowing them to be alone and process.
ISFPs are more likely to trust ENFJs who affirm and support ISFPs while allowing them privacy to work independently on projects.
ENFJs may find it easier to trust ISFPs who recognize and appreciate ENFJs’ contributions to the community; ISFPs should get to know ENFJs by spending quality time with them.
Both ISFPs and ENFJs bring empathy and conscientiousness to a workplace. ISFPs also offer practical solutions and flexibility, while ENFJs offer energy, creative ideas, and organization. ISFPs can help ENFJs process and accept new circumstances, while ENFJs can help ISFPs follow through and accomplish their personal goals.
Due to their Perceiving trait, ISFPs tend to naturally accept new situations. ENFJs may struggle to understand change, as it tends to disrupt their routing and throw them off balance. ISFPs should help ENFJs process change by encouraging them to create a new plan or routine, which may help provide a necessary sense of control.
ISFP and ENFJ types need to seek to understand what brings stress to the other type and should try to avoid causing it when possible.
ISFPs should avoid being too last-minute with ENFJs; instead, they should try to make loose plans in advance, so ENFJs can set expectations.ENFJs can help ISFPs by spending personal, quality time with them to connect emotionally.
ISFP and ENFJ types can encourage and motivate each other in their personal and professional lives.
ISFPs can motivate ENFJs by expressing gratitude and staying relatively organized in their workspace.ENFJs can motivate ISFPs by allowing them to follow their own loose schedule and pursue last-minute experiences.
I quoted an article as follows:
https://www.crystalknows.com/personality-type/relationship/isfp-enfj
http://www.socionics.com/rel/sdl.htm